What exactly is BDSM? Sexual domination/submission games? Pain as pleasure? What are the benefits or harms of this sexual practice? How to test? What accessories should I use?
An acronym for the words Bondage – Domination – Submission/Sadism – Masochism, BDSM encompasses a whole bunch of sexual practices that are very different from each other. Thus, we find fans of shibari (a type of sophisticated and ritualized bondage from Japan), or nice little balances of power, as well as fans of medical games, oculolinctus (eye licking), and showers. golden, trampling (being stepped on), pet-play (playing a pet or walking a person who is a pet), etc. So a little bit of everything !
The only link between all these practices is the fact of putting in place, particularly during sexual relations, a master/slave or active/passive logic. But there are different styles and levels of practice. It's not the same to be on a leash and play a pony as it is to let yourself be tied up by a lover. It’s up to you to find which experiences attract you… Or not!
For who ?
Well, it depends on the practice in question. BDSM can seduce cavalier lovers as well as couples looking for a new lease of life or lacking libido, but also lovers of strong emotions, submissive and rebellious people, simply curious people... In short, BDSM is addressed to all those who want it. The only rule: be confident with your partner and, it goes without saying, that the BDSM relationship is consensual.
Domination, sadism and masochism… Consenting adults sometimes seek to feel pain to stimulate their sexual pleasure and arousal. While many people believe that pain and sex are profoundly incompatible (sex is about pleasure while pain is not pleasurable), for others pain and pleasure may be associated in a context. sexual. Because, when done well, BDSM seems to have advantages for sexual development or couple relationships.
So if the experience tempts you and you want to discover new thrills, let's talk about it and become a gaming partner...
